I really want to post what my friend Shayne had sead to me the otehr day here.

i think, the beauty of relationships is that two people aren’t made for each other, they find each other. If they care to make the effort then they make themselves work for the other person, or work around them, they compromise. If you’re waiting for it to be just right you’ll miss your opportunity, it’ll never be just right, you have to take what you have and make it just right. If you’re trying and she’s not talk to her about it, or send her an… email/text/ask/fan-mail/skype/facebook yeah— one of those- and be straight with her (favorite term.. its puny) but really, tell her that you’re not having the mixed signals, put some weight on the relationship. If she’s trying that’s all you can expect, and if she’s not then you have to choose whether you’re gonna give her another chance, or try and move past. both are hard, really really hard. lol but you can’t wait around for something to happen.

With the conversation we were having and the delema I was in at the time she hit the nail right on the head for me. And I wanted to share it all with you. Not that many people actually read this haha. But I hope it’ll help someone.

ON A NOTE! I did not write this. A friend did. I’m not taking credit for it or anything.

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~ by lizzardspit on March 26, 2012.

4 Responses to “I really want to post what my friend Shayne had sead to me the otehr day here.”

  1. you posted this? haha i didn’t think it was that well written or, worth posting, its just how i feel about this stuff…

    • haha. Yeah I did post it. I don’t think it being well written or anything was the point. The point to posting it, and why it’s still lingering about in my ask on tumblr, is because you said it and it all hit my in the face. I finally seemed to understand why I was confused and it was magnificent. So that is why I posted it.

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